What do you do when you find out that your partner lied to you about their sexual past whether that was that they have slept with more people than they told you, or slept with people of the same sex, or have friends with benefits that perhaps even they are still friends with, or maybe are kinkier t...

If you or your partner is in love with someone else, while still together in a relationship, youre not alone. Research shows that 1 in 5 adults are in love with someone other than their partner. Most people who are infatuated with someone else are unhappy in their relationship (not surprisingly), wi...

Should you have sex on the first date? If not, then when should you? How do you know youre doing the right thing, to move your relationship forward rather than back?

My partner and I fight about money all the time and it is creating resentment in our relationship. We’ve both contributed financially to the relationship, but not equally, but I do more of the childcare and domestic work which I think should be worth something as well. How can we stop fighting...

My wife has slowly put on the kilos over the past few years. I still find her really attractive but what seems to have happened is that as the weight has gone on, she has lost any desire to have sex with me. Does weight affect women's libido? I love her and find her new shape sexy but I'm worried th...

As an older woman, on the wrong side of 60 and in fact nearing 65, I have to say Im having the greatest sex of my life. In fact Im not writing for advice on my sex life per se, but really to ask why more people dont have an active sex life well into their mature years. Isnt it good for us? In my cir...

Im so embarrassed to admit it and I dont know what to do about it ... I have premature ejaculation and Im afraid if I dont fix it, Im going to lose my partner over it. I have to stop pretending its not a problem, because it is to me! Please help?

Last year I discovered my husband was having an internet affair. He denied it for some time however I was able to find his email address and produce hard copy details. Discovering this issue hurt me no end and his explanation was that it was a fantasy and nothing else. However he was playing with re...

My partner and I are totally opposite in the way we communicate. Im an extrovert and I need to express all my feelings and he is quiet to the point of being withdrawn. It makes not only communication between us difficult, but also managing our fights. Is this a typical male-female difference or is i...

I met an amazing person and we have spent the summer hanging out, and it all felt so comfortable and natural and open. He had only recently broken up with an ex and has had other big changes going on and although he, like me, sees us being together long-term, he has told me he is not ready to get in...

I am a 49 year old male with a fiance of 53. We have been together for over a year. We love each other very much but the problem is we dont have sex. She says I do nothing to turn her on and I know my equipment is not as big as previous partners. She can accept the matter although she says she is mi...

Recently I shared with my girlfriend my feelings for her and said "I love you". She said to me that she feels uncomfortable when I say I love you. When someone says I love you to her she expects to feel the same and she doesnt feel the same way as I do with her. And because she doesnt feel the same ...

I am a 23 year old girl and I have absolutely no libido or desire to have sex, and this is causing quite a strain on my relationship. I have had random instances where I have desired to have sex. However, these are not very often. Not only do I never get excited, but I dont feel any pleasure during ...

Is monogamy natural?

Can you tell me about online porn addiction and how I can tell if I have a problem with it?

I've heard there are tests now that you can take, like blood tests and brain scans, that will tell you if your partner is, or could, cheat on you....is this really true? Where can I do this test because I want to have my fianc tested before we get married. I couldnt handle being cheated on, so if th...